Sunday, October 2, 2011

Suicide Myths and Facts

I found another very useful Info from the book that I read.


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Myths and Facts about Suicide (my simplified version)

myth people who talk about suicide don't commit suicide.wrong
fact it's actually a cry for help from that person that most people misunderstand as a joke and consider it as one.

myth improvement in a suicidal person means the risk of suicide has passed.
fact improvement is sometimes a sign that a person is preparing the attempt.

myth Once a suicide risk always a suicide risk.
fact people who encounter suicide and survive or is intervened usually put the thought aside.

myth suicide is inherited.
fact It is not genetic (as if),It can occur to any family.

myth Suicide affects a certain class of people.
fact It can happen to anyone.

myth suicidal individuals are insane.
fact this is a bit true, In some cases, But suicide is done with careful reasoning and deliberate judgment as the book said.

myth suicidal individuals are fully intent on dying.
fact most suicide cases are undecided whether they want to live or die.

myth the motive for a particular suicide is clearly evident
fact one problem is not enough it takes a lot of them to trigger a suicide and it usually develops over time through a certain pattern.

another cute trivia did you know that alcoholism can be considered as slow suicide since it is a pattern to one's own self destruction.

I got this info on the same book that I read The Last Dance Encountering Death and Dying fifth edition Lynne Ann DeSpelder Albert lee Strickland.

Oh! by the way I considered in posting this, since I also recently saw some news regarding this subject. It's a bit of information so just to add a little bit of knowledge. Avoiding it one should know a bit about what causes it.

remember, careful what you say to others that might hurt, you may think your doing good but your not.just remember to remind them why you said that in the first place or better yet do it in a nice tone that you know would not hit that hard.

Suicide

I have been Itching in Bringing this certain subject for the past months, due to some incidents that occurred here. Suicide so why do people do it at first i was having a hard time thinking to blog this or not but then all of a sudden my sister asked assistance for her report which dwell on the subject. So because of this I was able to study a little more about the subject considering the help of the book my sister borrowed from her school so here is a little bit of information of what I got from the book.

So first Question in my Mind people often state that a person who committed suicide can be considered Insane(I thought they were too) wrong.from what I understood, a person capable of suicide still has the ability to think and properly act the cause of one's death, wherein a person of Insanity, just does it accidentally so mainly a high level of people who commit suicide are in not the so Insane mode when they did it only problems is why they did it if they where?




So I go to my Second Question Why they Did it.The usual point of view towards people who commit suicide is that 1. they have problem that they cannot escape 2. they couldn't handle life anymore.So what did I find out. well I have manage to make a bit of my own conclusion base on the book. The first 2 conclusion are a bit correct but in a simplified manner, they are both simple to understand yet still pose more question the more simplified explanation for the cause is 1.loosing one's belief that he/she matters to the world 2. nothing in this world matters anymore. So it just really means that people who tend to commit suicide either finds themselves worthless or finds the world or life they are currently in as worthless. so mainly, one way to prevent this from actually happening to us is to be pro active as much as possible.

by the way the book that I have manage to read is Titled The Last Dance Encountering Death and Dying fifth edition Lynne Ann DeSpelder & Albert Lee Strickland

Monday, September 5, 2011

Comic Browsing

For the past years I've been fond of reading comic books and novels. I've enjoyed the entertainment they bring. The most exciting thing that I usually await is the release of Pinoy made comic's I love it when i see an artwork that is made by filipino with a twist of foreign art. it give's excitement to me whenever I see or read something that is related to the country and so for the past I have managed to read some interesting Pinoy made comics naming them would be Culture Crash,Neo Epics Comics, and the latest one that I have manage to read Trese. Though sometimes it pains me to see that some of these comics only stay for awhile unfinished,yet I am still happy to know that many filipino still enjoy the art of making comics I just wish that more Filipino would appreciate them, so that they can actually stay longer and have an ending. This thought suddenly came in to my mind when I saw an artwork that was made by a filipino but manage to infiltrate a japanese manga site Novus Karma by Kevin Libranda never expeted that this artwork was pinoy made because of the artwork though it had some downfall with some stuff but hey the guy sure is a talented person when it comes to his art I just hope that he gets more readers so that the comic can stay and end properly.

Friday, September 2, 2011

What will you do if wishes do come true

Did it ever happened that you wished for something so impossible that when it happened you never had the chance to actually grab it because you yourself believe that it was too good to be true.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Do the plank

People these days have managed to have weird ways of making trends for their own entertainment, it's weird cause it's out right
nonsense yet it can be both entertaining and funny at times(specially, when someone that you know actually did it). One certain example of the outrageous trends that I've just recently noticed is the so called "Planking". When I first heard about it from my brother, the first thing that came into my mind was the actual "Planking" exercise, wherein you hold your body in a push up like position and your elbow should actually support the whole of the body.

But of course my brother was'nt referring to this sort of "Planking", he was referring to the funny yet no sense planking, no sense because you just do it for no reason but to look awkwardly funny. When they started doing these so called Planking, I ended up saying "what your doing is pointless,you just look really stupid" (parang wala naman kakuwenta kuwenta yung ginagawa niyo,para lang kayong mga tanga), my brother then replied to me "thats the point of it, you need to look stupid, but you need to be in that position"(yun nga yun, dapat mukha kang tanga pero kailangan nakaganung position). after their so called planking photo session, I could'nt help but noticed the really funny outcome. Since a friend of mine was the actual person who did it I can't help but laugh for an hour.this is the plank that they manage to do as of now which really made me laugh.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

how to detect lies



For the past weeks I've been experiencing a lot of stories from close people about certain people lying to them and them having troubles proving the lies or knowing if the person is actually lying so to shed a bit of light for them I kinda had the itch to browse online for this "how to detect lies here are some example's from the site

Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

I got the information from this site http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php soif ever you want to train yourselves in the art of catching liars better read up on this hahaha (I am so EVIL!)

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

one of the songs I'm currently addicted to right now

Tonight I'm so alone
This sorrow takes ahold
Don't leave me here so cold
(Never want to be so cold)

Your touch used to be so kind
Your touch used to give me life
I've waited all this time, I've wasted so much time

Don't leave me alone
Cause I barely see at all
Don't leave me alone, I'm

Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Dreaming of the way it used to be
Can you hear me
Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Falling inside the black
Falling inside falling inside the black

You were my source of strength
I've traded everything
That I love for this one thing
(Stranded in the offering)

Don't leave me here like this
Can't hear me scream from the abyss
And now i wish for you my desire

Don't leave me alone
Cause I barely see at all
Don't leave me alone, I'm

Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Dreaming of the way it used to be
Can you hear me
Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Falling inside the black
Falling inside falling inside the black
Black, black, black

Falling in the black...
Slipping through the cracks...

Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Dreaming of the way it used to be
Can you hear me
Falling in the black
Slipping through the cracks
Falling to the depths can I ever go back
Falling inside the black
Can you hear me?
Falling inside the black
Can you hear me?
Falling inside the black
Can you hear me?
Falling inside
Falling inside, falling inside the black

Christian lyrics - FALLING INSIDE THE BLACK LYRICS - SKILLET