Wednesday, April 27, 2011

continuation of Lifes unfairnes

Centuries Later (weeks actually) GIRL finally tries to move on and of course manages to forgive BOY a bit, making them acquaintances. Since it was advisable that you forgive first so that you can forget, and for the fact that BOY is also within GIRLS circle of friends (Barkada). GIRL finally meets SIMPLE BOY who in turn manages to mend GIRL’s broken heart, their relationship was nourished for a long time and thus their love for one another grew and went to the point that they were actually planning to get married!

It was almost a happy ending not until BOY suddenly makes his appearance known again. during this time BOY actually has a new relationship, same as GIRL yet he still manages to think that he has the right and responsibility to interfere with GIRL’s decision. so being the talented suitor that he is BOY manages to get GIRL’s attention, AGAIN! while FRIEND’s not knowing of this action, did not manage to stop the rekindling bond of BOY and GIRL. But SIMPLE BOY being the very intelligent person that he is senses this immediately and tries to confront GIRL to tell the truth, he even asks advice and support from GIRL’s FRIEND’s which in turn makes FRIEND’s notice the certain change and catches GIRL on the act, since being the good FRIEND’s that they are they try to point out every possible flaw that her action has. Yet GIRL could not absorb a thing they say. And so thus blooms BOY and GIRL’s rekindled Love for one another leaving SIMPLE BOY to deal with this bitter unfaithfulness, trying effortlessly to make their relationship work yet to no prevail…..this is really irritating! Anyway after 2 gruesome months of martyrdom, SIMPLE BOY finally surrenders to his faith and having the ability to know where GIRL is whenever she make’s an alibi ( GIRL was also quite a skillful liar yet SIMPLE BOY could see through it) SIMPLE BOY finally gathers up the courage to confront GIRL, of course with assistance from GIRL’s FRIEND’s as to show to them that he was not mistaking on his accusations. So SIMPLE BOY catches GIRL and BOY together in a sweet romantic moment. So thus causes an argument between SIMPLE BOY and GIRL, while on the other side BOY is being calmed by their FRIEND’s as so not to attack SIMPLE BOY ( because he thinks he has the right to beat the crap out of SIMPLE BOY since he caught both of them on the act) So thus GIRL tries to explain herself and realizes her mistake, yet SIMPLE BOY has already been hit hard not as hard as her but still painful.

So upon surrendering to the faiths an accepting his defeat SIMPLE BOY breaks up with GIRL releasing her from all the bonds of their relationship, FRIEND’s try to talk to SIMPLE BOY to reconsider his decision. yet SIMPLE BOY points out every detail that he knew caused the downfall of their relationship. So to point out some of this here they are in an orderly manner.

Basing on the physique BOY is well fit of course being the sporty type of guy that he is Simple guy is a bit slim not that slim but the gym beginner type slim (he was trying to add a little weight since GIRL advised him to eat more)

SIMPLE BOY derived from his name is quite simple not handsome yet not badlooking at all while BOY on the other hand is what we can state as model like being the handsome and goodlooking the type that girls call “makalaglag panty” What a word.

BOY is the cool macho type of guy being included to a well known PRAT enjoying his life to the fullest like travelling abroad and partying has his own business courtesy of his wealthy parents, had graduated with a 4 year course from a well known school and has his own car, SIMPLE GUY on the other hand is the typical kind of guy being addicted to Anime, video games and enjoys the simple perks of life has manage to graduate with a 4 year course thanks to the hardship of his mom and relative’s abroad has a simple business( he managed to franchise a food cart from his earned salary) and is currently working for a very nice company which I cant mention in respect to him( I can’t mention the name of the company and work type since he will obviously read this I manage to somewhat be acquainted with him even though I’m included in GIRL’s circle of FRIEND’s ) peace friend hehehehe.

So with that said, after being drunk obviously. GIRL’s FRIEND’s surrender to SIMPLE BOY’s request to just let it be, during that time It made me think, what caused his surrender? was it because he knew he was no match for the enemy or was it simply because he knew that BOY was better for Girl (just a reminder SIMPLE BOY did not know that BOY had another relationship he thought that BOY simply wanted GIRL back).

So we go back to the oh so vulnerable GIRL just as you know BOY promised to break up with CURRENT RELATIONSHIP, as to manage to gain GIRL’s trust and favor, and so GIRL agrees to their so called secret relationship, but in the end GIRL again becomes the victim of her so very trustful decision.

Not long after she hears from someone within the family that BOY is being engage to CURRENT RELATIONSHIP! legally of course or to explain it BOY and CURRENT RELATIONSHIP’s parents were introduced formally(Namanhikan in our language I don’t know it’s English counterpart sorry anyway) again GIRL’s world crumbled apart to the point that she wanted to commit suicide, but with the help of the ever loving FRIEND’s that she has she surpasses this thought and realizes that she again can survive this one as she did last time. with this in mind she again severs their entwined relationship, or so she thought it as simple as that not until she found out that she was pregnant.( to hell with this news) so with this sudden event GIRL’s world is put to a pause ( I think she thought of suicide again but then reconsidered since she realized that she’ll be committing 2 unforgivable sins)

So upon learning of her condition GIRL swallows her pride and confronts BOY to take responsibility upon their action(I said their instead of his since GIRL also knows that this is also her mistake) Yet BOY being the Alpha male that he is, suddenly loses his fangs, but still has the courage to say to GIRL not to cause any trouble specially now that he is formally engaged, he also promised that he will eventually think of a way to make this work but not at the current moment( I wonder why some rich kids find it so hard to accept this mistake yet poor kids courageously steps up to face this challenge I repeat I said some not all) So with this said GIRL faces the most devastating challenge in her life.

surprisingly with her pride already swallowed and her will diminishing she does something that only few have done first she admits her mistake to her Mother and asks for forgiveness of course her mother being the all so caring and lovable person that she is just cries with disappointment at the fate of her child having no choice but to support and help her beloved GIRL.

And the second courageous act that she does ( and I mean courageous cause hell I was petrified when I learned about this and to the fact that she was alone) she went to BOY’s house and talked with BOY’s parents, of course BOY not being there, but to no avail did not manage to win their favor, so thus leaves her to raise the child with her Mom and with the support of her FRIEND’s. BOY on the other continues he’s adventures and enjoyment of life being engage to CURRENT RELATIONSHIP free from responsibilities.

SO to state the unfairness of this story why is it that GIRL, like I said before ends up with this kind of life? and BOY being all so very happy with his adventures still end up with a happy ending or is it?? Even though I know these persons I am still wishing that KARMA will prevail, as it always does but I wonder will I be able to know if ever it occurs or will it actually occur? Maybe its GIRLS KARMA for actually choosing BOY over SIMPLE BOY, then if so why is it that it seems BOY does not experience something like this or maybe something has and I didn’t know about it. Grrrrr I really find life so unfair sometimes, but like many people say hardships are part of life it’s what forms us to be better people… does that mean that the not so nice people never experienced hardships….. haiz, life sometimes is so unfair to others! (actually I just wanted to make a point out of this with some of the things of being unfair the female gender have always been the effected one if you check some stories it’s always like this on the other side of things maybe I’m just envious of my gender and status since I’m one of the simple people who was born with the simplicity of life lives with the simple yet joyous perks it offers and yet cannot find satisfaction haiz)

If you are familiar with the Anime Samurai X, a certain villain said that only the strong will survive and the weak shall fall,I believe in this quote cause if you will look upon our society those with strength (money, power, confidence) are usually the people who need only to exert a normal amount of effort to survive while those who are weak (poor, oppressed, shy) need to exert the highest amount of effort just to stay within the bounds of life, yet still end up with what is expected of them. the lesson here if you know that you are in the level of the weak, learn to accept it because if you don’t others will keep on crushing your world, once you have accepted the fact about your position in life, make sure you exert the fullest effort to the brink of your destruction, because there are many who will exert their own effort and not notice your existence, because they are too busy soaring. and to make sure that you do not have any guilt if you have decided to soar, remain on the bounds of decency and respect to others so that if ever you hit anyone while soaring you will know that it’s just as it is, for those who does not want to exert that extra effort to avoid you.

and if other people have manage to crumble you down it’s in you choice to grab onto that accident and use it as strength to get back or end up falling onto nothingness, and continue to remorse for the deed that was done due to your own weakness that you have not yet accepted.

How Life is sometimes unfair

Just something to think for a while .The date is April 25 2011 for some reason I just started thinking negatively again as usual. The thoughts that occurred my mind while I was lounging was why is it that usually and not just sometimes the world is so unfair, sighting an example would be in both myth and reality people who grew up in fairytales and under the great and visible care of both parent and their environmental society would not really see this but for the unfortunate many this has already been a daily routine and has endured and managed to live with these negativities in harmony.. So just to start this story and I really want to make it short as possible, here are the thing that ran in my mind while I was lounging.

So let me start with this story.. this one actually happened in real life by the way I did not put names to the people in this story since I know that they will kill me if they knew about this. So le me just give the characters certain codes mainly

GIRL – the person who I do not know why with all the good things she does in life and all the kindness that she show’s other people why does this have to happen to her

BOY - the guy who is not really bad in nature yet I can explain his actions a bit still manages to do these things to GIRL even though he cares for her

FRIENDS – the group of people that has always been on GIRL’s side may it be good or bad they have always proven their worth to her

NEW GIRL – the poor girl that got mixed up on this due to the ever talented skills of BOY posing as a single guy

SIMPLE BOY – another person who is the same as GIRL yet hell why does this have to happen to him too

CURRENT RELATIONSHIP– BOY’s new relationship after breaking up with GIRL

So to begin with there was this couple a very nice GIRL independent strong willed and very caring quite attractive too, she may not be the perfect one because we all know that nobody is perfect. and of course BOY quite hilarious very thoughtful open minded and really confident.

So BOY and GIRL have a really good relationship, So it seems until BOY suddenly goes unfaithful or in my term abnormal…Ok so this is the part where I kinda find it unfair. first BOY has already divirginized GIRL and has manage to conquer other unsuspecting prey while still having his relationship, while GIRL being all so faithful to her so called beloved turns down many and I would say many admirable suitor’s the world really has it’s perks for other’s ahahaha so back to the story, at last for some considerable time finally!! GIRL actually suspects BOY is doing something fishy. GOD I wonder why it took so long for her to notice, anyway so GIRL confronts BOY and everything but of course BOY is skillful talented, one that we could say could pass up as a spy .BOY instantly makes up an alibi for every accusation given to him so thus save’s their relationship for now,

What BOY doesn’t know is that GIRL has quite very nosy FRIEND’s, and a good thing too, during that time of course. So FRIENDs feel pity for GIRL and devices amazing tactics to catch BOY and these FRIENDs are really the thinking ones, why would I say that? Because what is the usual response of friends that usually cause’s arguments within their friendship, that we can say is the usual mistake committed by everyone. Answer they go direct to the point and confronts their cheated friend which of course results in an argument, because girl loves boy and would not accept such a thing, though she would a bit think, and of course confront boy and cause an argument within their relationship but eventually with one simple explanation from boy everything Fades away horrifying yet true. So what does these very sly FRIENDs do to make sure that their side is heard by their cared GIRL friend! even though they know that their friend Girl would be devastated, shocked and of course heartbroken. they must bare the painful fact that they needed to hit their friend hard and I mean really hard.

Back to the tactic, FRIENDs amazingly manages to get BOY’s routine visits and adventures, so they carefully plan a trap of chance why do I say chance? cause they weren’t really sure if they will catch boy in the act, yet they still got on with it even though with just chance on their side hell what was there to lose. So what was the plan? First they never told GIRL that they knew about boy’s action. what they did was they followed and studied BOY’s every movement, hahaha by the way I don’t suggest that others to do this since It’s very time consuming and stressful and might I add that these people really need to get a hobby rather than doing this, but it was thoughtful though.

Anyway back to the story so FRIENDs devise this plan to go Gimmick within the vicinity of boy’s preying area! And of course they told GIRL that they were going someplace else, just to make sure that BOY is misinformed by GIRL when she asks for permission to go. So with BOY informed falsely and GIRL is ready to enjoy Gimmick with her best FRIENDs, The plan was set! So what to do after that, make a really amazing and planned excuse before the gimmick and accidentally go on a detour within BOY’s preying area. So what happened exactly, So FRIENDs went to pick up GIRL and after confirming that she manage to tell BOY their place of destination, FRIENDs suddenly make an excuse to go somewhere while travelling, if my memory is right I think the excuse was(oh no I forgot I had to pick up something for my mom it’s in my tita’s house) so with that said they changed their destination, and of course keeping GIRL busy so as not to inform her beloved BOY,So after doing the make believe errand of one of the FRIENDs, they again make an excuse to go somewhere else.

For close friends of course this is not unique, A sudden change of plan is better than a planned one. So they go to this place wherein one of the FRIENDs state that something exciting is within that area, but of course that was BOYS preying area so Friends and Girl enjoy their weekend bonding drinking at this really nice coffee shop everything is normal as it seems for GIRL of course but for FRIENDs they were eyeing for something else and of course with all that effort and planning bingo they see BOY with a NEW GIRL being all sweet and funny as he always is.

So friends act like they were shocked, but of course encourages GIRL not to go all warrior princess on them, they try to make excuses like maybe she’s just a close friend you know! Gahahaha but in truth they just wanted to make sure that GIRL is hit Hard, and I mean very HARD,

so just to see who NEW GIRL really is they agree to accompany GIRL and follow BOY, of course with the agreement that GIRL does not make any sudden moves while nothing is confirmed and with that said heaven suddenly gave way to FRIENDs devious plot, BOY goes to the one place he should have never gone! “ THE MOTEL” of course cornering him and depleting almost 80% of his excuses, why did I say 80% because even when caught in the act many people still manages to make amazing and well fabricated excuses for themselves. So with BOY entering “THE MOTEL” and kisses NEW GIRL in a very lustful and passionate manner BOY seals his fate and lowers his excuses to a mere 5%, so with that said of course what was to be expected of GIRL!

She unleashes her FURY within and transforms herself to an AMAZON with speed and strength and no logic and excuse binding her not even the plea and hold of her Friends(of course what did you expect would a very independent girl to do when her heart is shattered by the one she trust and cared for the most).

She lunges a surprise attack on NEW GIRL with UFC, Wrestle Mania, Spartan and all the action packed films that you could think of on GIRLS mind, she tries to reenact every move and attack she can remember, causing a very huge critical damage to NEW GIRL with the staff in amazement and Friends shock! No one managed to Subdue GIRL’s anger for 2 minutes, which actually felt longer for everyone especially for BOY who was trying to intervene between GIRL and NEW GIRL, with all damages done and GIRL emerges triumphant she focuses all her energy to BOY, who was trying to calm her down. Instead of attacking BOY which she knows was meaningless comparing of course on GIRLS size to BOY. She instinctively cries and starts shouting to BOY with all the strength her lungs can muster. With all the most obscene and scandalous language coming out of GIRL’s mouth, BOY could not do a thing to stop her! After a horrifying 15 or 25 minutes of gruesome battle (I’m not sure since they said it felt long but if you check the time it wasn’t) GIRL finally realizes the scandal that she has caused and felt ashamed yet relieved of what she has done GIRL runs away from the scene of the crime, of course FRIENDs cursed BOY for what he has done before chasing after GIRL, they have finally made GIRL realized the unfaithful and unjust actions of BOY to her or so they thought!